The "A" Word

We are officially one week out from getting Kara! This might be one of my most important posts, so please, if you only read one post, make it this one. 

Although Kara will come to the US not knowing any English she will pick it up quickly. The children in this program are supposed to be told that this is a "camp" they get to opportunity to experience life in America, learn a little English, and be a part of a family for a month. 

PLEASE do not mention adoption (or any of it's forms) in front of Kara (or within ear shot). Most of these children yearn for a family of their own and they pick up quickly on the English language. One of the worst things that can (and has happened in the past) is that these children go back thinking they will be adopted. Yes, of course we want her and all the other host children to find their forever families, but they have to return to China after the month of hosting no matter what. Their family then has to proceed with the adoption and that is a time consuming process. Children have caught on to this word when it is being used in a different context. For example talking about adopting a pet or hearing a well meaning story of someone's own adoption story. Please be mindful of this, we know it's hard and we appreciate your efforts. 

We would LOVE to talk to you more about adopting or hosting, but without Kara's presence.

 We are so excited, actually, I am freaking out a bit!! I leave next Thursday to fly to Chicago and pick her up. We will be home late that night, so Bobby and the girls won't meet her until Friday.